Sorry if this is too long just wanted to be thorough.

New to Reddit finally decided to post instead of lurk. I currently live in Central Florida but I'm in South Florida during the weekdays for work. I'm moving to Palm Beach County in 8 months.

I'm a 5'2" curvy Puerto Rican woman. And by curvy I mean - pear shaped, junk in the trunk not blessed in the chest. Although I've heard more than a handful (for a rack) is wasteful but anyway ...

Capricorn sun, Taurus moon, Aquarius rising. Enneagram 3 Wing 4. I'm super straight and not interested in being a unicorn.

I'm a theatre nerd who loves food, dancing, karaoke, and stand up comedy. I'm also a STEM lady and love physics and math. Spreadsheets are my fave. I enjoy a good book, TV show, podcast, play, musical, or movie. Let's talk theology if you wanna get really nerdy.

I've identified as polyamorous for about 6 years. I've been happily married for almost 16 years. One kid. We prefer a kitchen table poly dynamic when appropriate. I've dated some but besides my husband, I've only had one additional long term partner (2 years). To be honest, it's been tough to get over that loss of a relationship.

I'm discreet about being poly due to my professional life. Close friends know. Some family know, but I'm not open to the world because poly people are not a protected class and I have my kid to consider.

Anyways....

Maturity, trust, honesty, and open communication are super important to me.

I am hella busy but I do carve out time for my partner and enjoy a consistent and considerate dynamic where we value and respect each other's time. Like I 100% will text you back, if not immediately definitely within a few hours to a day. Texting is fun. I will not ghost you when communicating via text. If it's not working out, I'll let you know.

All the love languages are important but my top one is words of affirmation followed by acts of service. Physical touch and quality time are obviously important too. And every now and then a small inexpensive gift or card is nice - to know that I'm top of mind.

I will appreciate your interests if you appreciate mine. I'm looking for one additional long term partner. I find that two partners is my magic number as three or more can get tricky with time. I want to click intellectually. I'm definitely a sapiosexual. Smart = hot. Emotional connection is super important. I need to have a connection before moving to physical stuff although, don't get me wrong, I really REALLY enjoy and need a good amount of physical and sexual intimacy. I consider myself a bad ass in the professional world, but I like to be a switch or sub in the bedroom.

I like bigger guys. Chubby. Fluffy. Dad bod. Like maybe you work out but love cookies. That's my jam. Also I'm short so short kings don't be shy. I love a well kept beard. Kind eyes and killer smiles are my weakness. If you give good bear hugs I'll melt with joy. Good cologne and I'll hold on tighter.

Prefer an age range of 30-45. Since I'm squarely a millennial.

Anyway, hopefully that wasn't too clinical and sparks some interest. If you just wanna hook up, I'm not the one, but if you want to have a long term partner that will love and support your dreams while building beautiful sexual intimacy, then let's talk.

I'm looking for a partner who wants to cheer on an ambitious woman. I'm always out here doing the most.

At the end of the day, being poly is being poly and I will respect your other relationships as long as you respect my relationship with my husband, who is ultimately my best friend. Hey, and if you like video games maybe he can be your best friend too. It's always nice when metamours are friends but that's not a requirement.

Okay that was long. If you've made it this far, DM me with something in Spanish and you'll get my attention. If you send a pic I'll send one back. A face with a name is nice and it's nice to know if we find each other attractive from the get go. More to life than looks, but again a human face helps when we're connecting in the digital age. I will NOT send nudes or pics of body parts - not a cool ask just saying - I'm not a prude but honestly that's not cool.

Okay I think that's it.