What I’m looking for is difficult to define and does change from time to time but is highly dependent on who you are as a person. This may be an orange flag, I’ll admit.
I do know what kind of interaction I want.
I want it to encompass warmth, good humour and authenticity with a touch of the vulnerable. If we don't connect in a profound way, it's just not worth the effort.
I don’t do drama, unless it’s a really good novel.
I consider myself ENM and have the usual domestic partner set up dogs. My world revolves around my dogs so you’ll usually find me home when I’m not out there trying to be gainfully employed. I do leave the house occasionally but only if it’s going to involve food at some point.
I’m trying to watch less TV so I suppose that’s why I’m here. When I’m trying not to watch TV and am particularly angsty, I write poetry. But lately I’ve been in a good space so I’ll venture into other creative pursuits. At least until I realise I’m too lazy to do anything of significance.
I’m round, brown and curly haired, by the way.
In terms of the real world, I will only ever date one other person at a time. On the whole, I have a preference for actual conversations over the phone, like they did in the old days. I don’t think I could sustain any kind of interaction without this element, peppered with a bit of texting of course.
All you have to be, above all else, is kind, intelligent and easy going.
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