I am looking for someone (or, ideally, someones) specifically interested in a closed poly V. Or, in less clinical terms—I'm looking for a woman who wants to have two boyfriends. I have always found the MFM dynamic really hot and alluring. I've gotten to play with it a handful of times and I'm always left wanting more.
I am not sure how best to find this without it feeling like some kind of engineered relationship (which maybe it kind of has to be, in a way). I think what I actually want is to join an existing couple that is looking specifically for a dedicated, exclusive, third. I am also open to dating a single woman and trying to find a third partner together. I have tried both in the past, and have found that the latter is surprisingly difficult.
I consider myself heteroflexible, but in a slightly peculiar way. I don't find myself attracted to guys, but I do find myself attracted to guys that my partner is attracted to. Not in a romantic way, but in a strictly sexual way. When I see my partner getting hot for another guy it drives me crazy. It's like a transferal of sexual attraction and energy, and I'm suddenly very bisexual. And this is how we arrive at the title of my post: A wise woman once said, "I just want two boyfriends, and I want my boyfriends to be boyfriends." I don't know who that wise woman was, but I'd like to meet her… and her boyfriend.
I'm 40, tall, slim, hung, and look a lot younger than I am. I'm in California, but willing to travel for the right person(s). I'm just feeling this out right now and looking to talk to some likeminded people.
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