First and foremost: I am a childless cat lady and I'm proud of it!

Now that that's out of the way...

Hi everyone! I know you might find yourself asking why I want an online girlfriend (or two). Well...the truth is ever since the pandemic lockdowns, I have developed social anxiety. I have to be more cautious of who I interact with because I'm around two elderly folks, a toddler, and I have some auto-immune issues. And I live in a very conservative area where I'm treated differently when I wear PRIDE clothes, I don't feel safe being out. :/

So now that my confessional is out of the way... Let's go!

I am unpartnered, identify as queer, am demisexual, and I'm based in the US. It's been quite some time since I practiced polyamory because I was in two long term monogamous relationships. I'm AFAB, for ladies who care.

I'm a left leaning centrist, work to further my employer's DEIB policies, am pro therapy, and create safe spaces for people to be their authentic selves. I'm self sufficient, introspective, and considerate. I am a foodie, love true crime, play video games, try to do crafty things, read manga like Boruto, collect comics, and decorate my home with nerdy statues. I am a night owl and love sleeping under a mountain of blankets.

I consider myself a tomboy at heart, but I'm not super butch. I try to be very calm and go with the flow, but can be very passionate about things I care about. I'm the person in meetings who is the first to speak up when everyone else is too shy. But when I meet new people, I get quite shy and anxious myself.

I have problems, just like everyone out in the world. I'm a domestic violence survivor and I've grown a lot thanks to therapy. I've become the healthy person I am through perseverance, hard work, and a can-do attitude. I am stable in my life, mentally and emotionally.

So.... Who would I like to connect with?

Please, please, please - NO MEN. I want an online girlfriend - not a boyfriend!

I want to make it clear that I'm not a TERF, so I don't mind if you're AFAB, trans, or NB.

I'm not overly concerned with appearances. Tbh I care more about us having shared geeky interests... While I am more attracted to to soft butch or feminine women IRL, I'm totally okay with us associating each other with our profile avatars. I'm more interested in someone's personality and mind. That's one big perk about online companionship, there's extra emphasis on connecting intellectually!

In relationships I find myself usually taking the lead. But I'm not opposed to taking the back seat. I enjoy sharing intimacy through rp/erp type actions. I felt that also allows folks to explore hidden desires and experiment in a safe way. I'm open to vanilla connections and kinky ones. I'm versatile like that. ;]

I feel like this is already a novel, so I'm going to cut it short for now!