I'm a kinky, respectful, ENM guy and I'm really interested in building connections with couples. I feel like what I'm looking for is a little difficult to label / describe, but basically:

• I have kids and a nesting partner, so looking for "comet" style relationships, not full-time arrangements.
• I'm kinky; love rope, teasing, and playing (in an emotionally safe, measured and pre-negotiated way) with humiliation and/or jealousy.
• I love flirty and seductive vibes.
• I am conceptually into cuckolding, especially as a "bull," except with the vibe that everyone should feel safe and respected and like their needs are being met.
• I'm bisexual but haven't had the chance to explore it at all. I would love to dip my toe in the water by kissing a cute man, tying him up, and then pleasuring his girlfriend in front of him.
• Interested (in case it's not obvious) in a kitchen table poly style where you'd be comfortable meeting my partner at some point and/or introducing me to whoever else we bumped into.
• All genders welcome.

My non-sexual interests include:

• Tabletop RPGs
• Guitar / music
• Computer games
• Baking and cooking
• Dental floss user

I live about an hour north of NYC, and can drive, etc. Let's share some spicy texts / PMs, then maybe a bottle of wine and vibe check?