Hello all!

I’m Amelatu, or Atu, for short (yes, the name has a story, but it’s very nerdy, so be prepared if you dare ask). I’m a bisexual male (he/him) who prefers women seeking connections, whether they be friendships or more!

I’ll dive in with a bit about my personality, then I’ll move on to interests.

I’m very laid back as a person. I love to laugh, and teasing and good humor are a must. I don’t go for looks. I’m here for minds, so having good wit, being articulate, and being fascinating are a must for me. I’m also very sweet, and a born flirt. Once I get comfortable, I’ll have you blushing as often as possible. I do suffer from a few psychological issues, namely Bipolar, anxiety, and depression. Given those issues, plus polyneuropathy, I’m disabled and my disability hearing is coming very soon. But, that means I have tons of time to talk! And boy am I a talker. I’m a notorious double texter and will blow up your phone, and like people who will do the same.

I’m a huge gamer, with entirely too many steam games. I enjoy pretty much any and every genre, but lately ARPGs are my jam. Last Epoch especially has my attention as of late. I also play League, but am terrible at it, so bonus points if you’re willing to carry my sorry butt. I’m also big into D&D and TTRPGs in general. I’ve been a DM for more than ten years, and run quite a few different systems.

I’m a musician. I’m a trained singer, and played drums until my neuropathy got too severe to continue. I do play ukulele and bass, and have professional grade recording and editing software (FL Studio All Plugins Bundle specifically). I love to sing and record covers.

I’m a reader, with Lovecraft being my favorite author by far. That said, horror is my favorite genre in pretty much all media, especially movies. A few current favorites are Babadook, Midsommar, The Witch, and It Follows.

I am a crafter! Currently, I make things with my Cricut, but I enjoy knitting from time to time. Ask for photos and I’ll be happy to share some of my recent creations with you.

As for physical descriptions, I’m 6’6”, bearded, chubby, and tattooed.

My love language is quality time. I like date nights, gaming sessions, or long discord calls just spent talking. Voices are very important to me, so having discord is a must, and while there’s no rush on a call, I do require them eventually.

That’s about all I can think of for the moment, but I’m an open book who is dead honest and appreciates honesty in others. Which is to say, ask all the questions you like!

Hope to meet some of you lovely people!