Interested in someone I can meet in person instead of only talking with online. It would be nice to have more people to go to events with, visit new places, try out different restaurants or help water my houseplants when I’m out of town.
I’m primarily interested in making platonic friends but in the small chance there is mutual interest in something more than that I’m open to the possibility. I’m in a relationship and my partner and I believe one person can’t and shouldn’t meet every need. For us that has meant having our own group of friends but we are open to the idea that it could include a physical/sexual relationship as well.
It would be a good start if we have similar interests/hobbies (cooking/baking, photography, sitcoms with laugh tracks, the occasional outdoor activity, and making stuff). Or maybe we have similar backgrounds (I’m a first gen American, have lived in 9 states, and try to live a minimalist life) or shared beliefs (round Earther). I’m interested in hearing about you, your life experiences and how you got to this point in time because I feel like my perspective is so narrow when it comes to how other people live.
If all the above sounds good to you, how should we begin? Want to do the typical get to know you dance and make small talk? I’m good with that, I actually quite enjoy small talk. If you want to mix it up maybe we start with a Rorschach inkblot or piece of modern art and each say what we see. Want to include a movie title in each sentence? Mamma Mia, here we go again. Opening messages can be awkward, I get that so no pressure to come up with something clever or unique, feel free to just start the conversation with a little about yourself, what you’re looking for, and what you have on your mind.
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