For context, we have had poly relationships in the past. Went a little too fast in all the excitement and only one really stuck. She wanted to explore a different journey and we celebrate that still but our poly life paused there and became derailed after I struggled with the loss of my breasts to cancer/ miserable failure in reconstructive efforts. We took time to rebuild as a couple and made the human errors that most do in the name of "protecting" each others emotions aka just suppressing desires and limiting communication flow. We worked very hard and are out of that era finally😅We realized in my journey of re-learning to love and accept the body I'm in that both of us have gained a clear anxiety.
Breasts.
I am trying to find a creative way to safely address a real experience without recklessly diving into pursuing the desired outcome immediately. I do want to face that situation head on in a sense to gauge my reaction and work from there because as much as I am excited and ready, I know the unexpected should always be embraced when living in the poly world. I'm happy to elaborate in a PM if you think you are up for the uncharted waters with people who are very transparent in their truths.
Emotionally and sexually we have desires that we want to honor with everyone's wellbeing as the priority. Life is short and the beauty in human connection is too valuable to miss out on right? I would be happy to provide some pics of us if curious or my before/after to kind of shed light on why l struggled with the physical changes. Cheers🖤
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