Hiii so I’m kind of trying something new here. I’m a 24F looking to maybe start a poly relationship. I’ve never been in one and I am apprehensive due to the common horror stories of people just using them for unethical partnership/ sex 🙂lol. That being said I am looking for a kind of specific sort of relationship. So let me tell you more about myself and what I’m looking for!

about me :) I’m a senior in college who loves to read, watch great cinema, exercise, hike, and go out for an occasional night of drinks/music/etc with my friends. I’m a little nerdy but pretty social lol, so i’d love someone who also has some niche interests we could discuss/do together. I’m mixed and very petite, conventionally pretty with big brown eyes and curly hair. I’m a switch but I don’t like to switch within my relationships, if that makes sense. I also have a casual romantic partner, however we have different sexual interests so we’re comfortable having separate relationships outside of that.

what i’m looking for :): i am a dom leaning switch and currently looking looking for male submissives but i think it could be fun to also add a f or m dom into the trio. i am not looking for something too serious to start as im working, in school, etc so my life is just pretty busy. Im looking for partners who are in the same boat and are looking for certain levels of commitment while still maintaining our independence/separate lives. However I imagine feelings might evolve over time and I’d like the dynamic to evolve with it. For example, I would like us to be exclusive within our group/dynamic but maintain the freedom for all of us to date outside of that, with total transparency. but if one partner wanted to change that, we would simply talk about it! i can’t give myself to someone i don’t LIKE so i would expect us to be friends first and share occasional acts of romance. so like FWB? with somee rules? i also would like us to spend time together maybee twice a month-ish? so it is consistent but not overbearing. physically, i would like someone around my age ( 21-27), in shape, congenitally attractive, hygienic. i like pretty boys/ androgynous leaning peeps but also handsome alpha types who just want to be good for me 🥰 in terms of knk im kind of a mommydom/ gentle dom. if we message we can discuss this further! buttt i am looking more for a slow burn not a hook up lol, so plz dont send anything overtly sxual.

So sorry ik this was a lot! but if you think we could be looking for the same thing plz send me a fun message with a SFW (no face necessary) to get the ball rolling! I look forward to hearing from you :))💖

DISCLAIMER: do not message if you do not match my requirements. I do have hard limits we can discuss. if we all decide to proceed i will create an agreement for all partners prior to us beginning a relationship to ensure everyone’s safety & fulfillment of desires! 🍃friendly. no couples or online only dynamics.