Hi, polyam community. *waves*

Look, Iʻm pretty much the cutest. I like costumes, dirt and liberation. Goofy, community oriented, love cuddles and dancing, put effort into living my values, Iʻm regularly told Iʻm kind. I work for a nonprofit farm on the island I was born on, lots of friends and joy in my life. But I happen to live on an outer island in Hawaii, and our polyam community is itsy bitsy. Iʻm looking for LTR(s), and no luck out here. My friends tell me there are many polyamorous queer people, whole meetups and bars and clubs, out in yonder world. Hoping to tap into that. Some more info:

* Iʻm somewhere between relationship anarchy and kitchen table polyamory

* Gender is not important to me, personally or in dating (though I will respect yours). Iʻm AFAB, femme presenting, woman passing, aware that I carry privilege for this. 5ʻ10", 165 lbs, cute butt that I like to shake.

* Sensual > sexual; open to all sorts of interests including ace folks

* Communication, communication, communication. I prefer to error on the side of over communicating. I expect both of us to manage our emotions responsibly. I donʻt do well with reserved people and those who keep their feelings to themselves.

* Political action is a big part of my life, and I donʻt mean getting out the vote. Hawaii is an occupied sovereign nation, Palestine deserves to be free, Land Back, Bodies Back, BLM, aloha aina. I do my best to live in a way that makes a better (decolonial) world happen.

* I am unfortunately not the best at online communication. TBH not even sure I used the R4R thing right in my title, LOL. I want to eventually meet you in person. Ideally for me, you would consider moving out to Hawaii where my home and family is, but Iʻm open to long distance with frequent visits.

Looking forward to chatting :) DM me.