I’m an immigrant to these lands from England, since 2009. I’m doing decently in life (as much as one can) and am stable / healthy. I’m married to my partner [F38] of 8 years who is also poly - we date solo, not together. Prefer women who are in a similar situation - partnered with kid(s) - and understand limited availability and how to maintain a relationship by stating in touch often and making time when we can.

I like deep conversations and learning other peoples speciality interests as well as being goofy and laid-back. I am an extroverted introvert so I do enjoy being out and about but also need my recovery time in between. I like watching movies at the Alamo or on the couch with my home cinema setup. I really enjoy checking out new food spots in the city as well as cocktail bars or speakeasies. a place with a really sexy / intimate vibe is like gold dust for me. I like to travel when I can and appreciate people that have awareness and appreciation for many different cultures. I was a radio and nightclub DJ in a past life and while I’m not as obsessed with music as back then, it’s still an interest of mine. I do like some outdoorsy stuff from time to time but limited when it’s Texas and hot outside (yeah I know it’s my own fault for moving here).

I’m far from vanilla and love exploring what a partner is interested in but prefer to talk about that after we one each other better first.

I’ve always loved video games but don’t consider myself a hard-core gamer the way that I see a lot of people mean when they say that. I mostly enjoy games that involve puzzles or some kind of deeply effecting story - usually smaller indie games but a couple of bigger games like FF7 Rebirth and Star Wars Survivor have been recent fun experiences for me. I also like board games but again not nearly to the super-fan level I find when I go to game nights. I’m more casual / go-at-my-own-pace, but I’m always into learning what my partners are into. I have played soccer with a team but now that’s mostly reserved for my kid, but I also love watching men’s and women’s soccer.

It’s poly, so I don’t expect one person to everything. If you see a couple of things in this that you are into, or think we might just make decent friends and let me know that’s what you want, then please reach out :)