I'm taking a break from looking for partners. I've dealt with a lot of toxic men, somone I was into and they told me they were too but needed time to work on themselves but flirting was okay, but kept shooting me down every time I tried, and friends who have all vanished. I'm working on my mental health and I need to rebuild my community.

About Me:

• 37-year-old caucasian parallel polyamorous woman with a wife (TF/42) and three kids.
  
• Enjoys memes, audiobooks, physical books, and mobile games.
  
• Liberal, atheist, nerdy.
  
• Introverted, social anxiety, depression, anxity, ADHD, demisexual, and noetisexual.
  
• Likes hiking, photography, Twitch, and YouTube.
  
• Trapped in a toxic marriage, but not looking for someone to save me, and I'm not talking about it until I know someone well.
  

Normally I think these are honkey, but this is pretty accurate:
INFJ - Guardian
Introverted - 81 %
Intuitive - 58%
Feeling - 67%
Judging- 50%

Guardians are principled, generous and talented communicators. They hold a passion for doing good for the world and for the people they love, driven by their deeply held principles and values. They are one of the most loyal, loving, and supportive partners They are visionary and see the world as what could be, and are continually drawing insights that explain how people and the universe work. But at the same time, you'll find them adorable and endearing as they could be doing this while bumping into things or forgetting to wear matching socks.

Strengths- creative, insightful, inspiring, well spoken, decisive, determined, passionate, altruistic, loyal, principled, compassionate.

Weaknesses- sensitive, extremely private, perfectionistic, always need to have a cause, can burn out easily, overlooks details, conflict averse.

Attracted By- principled, creative, outgoing, empathetic, caring, respectful, deep, warm, sincere authentic, open, welcoming, loyal, curious, romantic, thoughtful.

Qualities they can't stand- unethical, dismissive, rude, critical, superficial, disrespectful, condescending, arrogant, selfish, cruel, disloyal.

What I'm Looking For:

• Texting friends aged 30-46 within 1 hour of 21234.
  
• Genuine platonic connections, with potential for more if something grows.
  
• I need people who are daily texters, not once in a while when they have nothing better to do. People who actually put in the effort.
  ‼️‼️Initial PM should include A/S/L and a bit about yourself. Will ignore as spam otherwise. ‼️‼️