Hiii I’m Sam! I hate dating apps and I am such a homebody that it’s hard for me to meet new people. I’m also still new to Indiana so I don’t have any existing friends/connections here, but I’m open to online connections as well. I’m married, and I’ve dated a few people here but ultimately I still want to make a few good friends, and I’m very open to lovers and full relationships. Not trying to get crazy saturated, but open to all types of relationships. My only current partner is my husband, with a couple of people I see for dates sometimes but it’s still early.

I’m bi/pan, nonbinary afab, and have some pics on my profile! I love kink and am a switch (my fetlife name is also on my page hehe). I really get along well with people who are emotionally intelligent, super communicative, silly or goofy, funny, and nerdy. Typically I’m physically attracted to fem presenting people, people with beards, tattoos, but honestly it’s about vibes and connection for me so shoot your shot anyway. I hate people who ghost others so please don’t message me if you have that pattern. I prefer people who have a growth mindset, in therapy, and mostly optimistic or only a tiny cynical lol. I’m in therapy and medicated myself and have been for about 5 years. I struggle with anxiety and depression but we out here babyyyyy. Getting it figured out day by day.

I love attention and being treated like a princess and I do the same for any partner I have. Definitely on my phone often but will never get upset if you can’t talk, I know life is busy. I just have lots of free time due to my job! I would prefer someone who can talk daily, through the day, but if you’re local that’s more relaxed since we can meet and spend physical time together!

I love music, gaming, most nintendo games, reading, cooking, plants, animals, good food, live music, museums, aquariums, rotting at home, and probably many more things I’m just forgetting about haha. It’s hard to describe yourself!

Sex is important to me so if you’re ace and don’t like sex we probably won’t be a good romantic match, but outside of that I have no preferences for body types, gender, race, sexuality, etc. 🥰

Send me some pet pics????