Hi.

Let's cut to the chase because I've written a bunch of these and I'm still writing them. Although the sausage fest that is the internet doesn't make it easy to stand out from the younger, fresher, studs. I wonder if I peaked in my 30's?

What I'm looking for:

A woman who is just down to hang out, chat, and be open to a connection. I'm not necessarily picky about your interests because my wife and I have almost completely different interests and we've been together for 20 years (married 18 and going) and ultimately what your interests are doesn't exactly define your ability to be interesting or not. Everyone is interesting. So if you're more apt to chill on a couch and watch movies, shows, play games, I'm down. If you're one to get out, hit the gym, be active, I'm down as well (give me time to catch up to you, I'm either working or vegetating as a result of work/life.)

Redheads are a plus - you'll easily be able to wrap me around your finger. I don't get it. Some weird deep rooted Irish preference wired into my brain maybe? Hair color doesn't bother me, just redheads... mmm. Sorry, let's move on.

Don't be an extremist. I don't care about your political affiliation unless you live and breath red or blue. I care more about what will advance us forward from a human rights, equal rights, perspective.

So what about me? What/who am I?

As I mentioned above, married, open, and casually looking. The more I dip my feet in the dating pool, the more toxic, volatile, and awful it is. Especially OLD. Good lord.

I'm free of any STI's and would hope you are the same.

I'm not looking for a hookup or a timeline to when we get busy in the sheets. If it happens it happens, but it's not something on the forefront of my mind. I'm looking for a connection and someone that's going to make me feel a little extra special every day and afford me the opportunity to do the same for you.

I am a bit of an introvert but love going to restaurants and exploring new foods. I'm not a fan of particularly loud places (hearing issues, adhd, and probably a dash of autism) but I can manage if I know ahead of time.

I'm an avid gamer and have been since I was young. It isn't my whole life and I'm not obsessed over sports games, shooters or whatever, but I do enjoy cooperative style games where I can work with the other person to beat a game. It's very gratifying to work as a team and complete a game together.

So to summarize:

Be you. With me. Let's see if we can add a little something special to our daily lives and allow it to grow into something amazing.

100% of the shots not taken will always result in a missed opportunity.

I appreciate that you've read all of this, provided you did. If I captured or piqued your interest, my chat is always open. I may not respond right away, but I will respond at least within 24hrs, usually.

Thanks