My name is Butterfly and I am 34 years old for another few weeks. For some reason turning 35 is a little scary, maybe having a handsome man as a birthday present will be helpful!

I recently had an in person love interest and realized how much I miss the new relationship feeling. I love the building sexual tension, the making out, soft touches, and just falling head over heels for each other. Unfortunately dues to circumstances outside of both of our control, this budding interest ended. So here I am, looking again!

So, what should I tell you .... I live in Alberta, Canada with my husband of 7 years and our fur babies (ask me their names!). I also have two long distance partners. I am so lucky to have what I do, so why am I posting here? I am still missing something - maybe that's you! While I would love to find a partner who is local to Alberta (I am near Calgary), I am also open to meeting people anywhere and seeing what happens.

I love the beginning of a new relationship, getting to know somebody, making that connection and creating the magic together. I want to have the butterflies in my tummy.

A bit about me:

• I am sweet and have been told I am adorable. I am a total princess (but not in a spoiled way). I am girly and feminine.
• I am plus size. I am working on learning to love myself in my own body, while also working on being healthier overall.
• I have rediscovered my love for reading and read 70 books last year. I also enjoy bowling, binge watching TV shows, being crafty, board games and spending time with "my people".
• This year I am specifically working on stepping outside of my comfort zone. In April I was a part of the cast of a production with our local theater group!
• I like to say that I am 5 years old on the inside. I love Disney, glitter, and stuffies. I like to indulge my inner child!
• I blush way too easily.
• I am a switch. If you know you know .... (I also have over 150 toys)
• I work remotely from home and have the time to chat during the day.
• While I am usually pretty busy, I always have time to connect with the people who matter to me. I am a great listener and I am loyal to those I love.

What I am looking for:

Honestly? I don't have any specific expectations. I am open to friendship. a good conversation, an online play partner, or falling in love. I do prefer long term over short term connections. And I am not just here for R rated chat, I want substance. While all of my relationships have been with men, I am open to exploring a connection with a man, woman or somebody who is trans or genderfluid. I do have some preferences though:

• A good sense of humour. Willing to have fun and laugh. I love bantering and teasing, so being able to take it, as well as give it back is a huge plus.
• Over the age of 27 but under 47.
• Physical looks don't matter so much to me. However, if you are a big teddy bear of a man, have tattoos and/or a beard, that is a plus.
• Time zones don't matter so much, as long as you have time to talk during my waking hours - MT time zone.

If any of the above interests you, I would love to hear from you! Please send me a chat or message with a bit about you. If you just say Hi, I am less likely to answer. Don't make me do all the work with the conversation.

Can't wait to chat!