Hello lovely internet people!

I am writing this little post for my husband, Spencer, of several years because sometimes you just need someone else to describe and brag about you, you know?

Some background, we have been together since high school and have been in a non monogamous structure for a little over a year now. We date separately, but I do like to be his wingwoman as I can be the more outgoing of us two. (See this post as an example.) He doesn’t currently have any partners other than me, who is a nesting partner.

So, here’s a little about Spencer:

He currently works in IT and has always been very into computers. He enjoys gaming quite a lot and rotates what games he’s currently obsessed with semi-frequently. A couple long-term standouts include Guild Wars 2 and RuneScape. He primarily is a PC gamer, but also owns several consoles too. He has a dream of creating his own video game based around the idea of “space whaling.”

He has recently gotten into bouldering as exercise and frequents one of the local indoor rock climbing gyms. He also used to fence in high school and college, but the equipment is rather expensive and so he hasn’t gotten back into it despite wanting to.

We have a Shiba Inu named Max that he’s obsessed with. He loves dogs in general and his saved tab on Reddit is pretty much entirely filled with cute and silly dog posts. He has also several dramatic stories in which he’s gone above and beyond what the normal person would do to rescue dogs in trouble. I highly recommend asking to hear those.

He’s also very interested in weird experimental music. His favorite band is called Clipping. He is also musically inclined himself. He can play the piano and has been interested in learning the bass guitar.

Ultimately, though, the most important thing to know about Spencer is that he is a beautiful and incredible person both inside and out. He’s got a quiet and introverted energy on the outside, but can talk for hours if you get him started on the right topic. He is sweet and lovely and compassionate. From a looks perspective, one of my personal favorite things about his looks are his beautiful dark curls and the way his eyes crinkle when he smiles. He’s got a very fun sense of style, which includes lots of loudly patterned, modern Hawaiian shirts as well as some cyberpunk inspired pieces. With his recent foray into climbing, he’s been developing lots of muscles, but he’s still got a little belly, which makes a perfect pillow to lay on.

Spencer is ultimately looking for more companionship in his life, including expanding his social circle with more friends. He is open to both a more casual fwb relationship or something more serious. Feel free to DM me for photos, his contact info, or with any questions you might have.