If you're reading this and think it sounds like familiar vibes, it's probably because I have posted on here before. If we have talked before and didn't have a connection it's probably best we don't spin the block :)

Me: I am a 36 year old woman living in the Twin Cities. I work as an office manager. Physically, I am short, chunky, cute and have an amazing personality! I am happy to swap pictures to see if there is any mutual attraction before we start talking (I'd honestly prefer to respectfully get it out of the way). I am also demi-sexual and not looking for a sexual relationship to start off. I am super independant and enjoy having my own hobbies and space (including my own bed). I am openly polyamorous and bisexual, meaning my family, friends and most of my workplace is aware.

Hobbies: I like to read, walk, bike, listen to music and tiktok. I am interested in taking classes for dance, spanish and photography (I've got the cameras).  I would also love to start traveling, but I am kind of nervous about doing it alone and would love to find a travel group or buddies to begin with.

I am looking for a life partner. Practically speaking, this world is not built for single people and it would be nice to split the bills with someone and save for life goals, events and travel. I'm looking for someone independent, polyamorous and childfree. If you reading this all the way through and like what you see respond with a howdy partner. I prefer mostly separate finances and don't see myself getting married if it's not for practical reasons. I am looking for someone and to add to my support system, a little romance, dating, and intimacy. I tend to do well in relationships/friendships with people that are also independent, good communicators, encouraging, good motivators and good at setting/respecting boundaries.

Communication style: 24/7 connection is not sustainable for me. I don't like to text or chat all day. I am better at setting up a time to talk or meet up. I have adhd and possible BPD? and I tend to get very distracted if I am talking to someone all day, so I like to put my phone on silent and respond at certain times of day, unless it's a super slow day. I also do not expect people to text me back immediately or even the same day.

I am not interested in couples, unicorn hunters, polycules, permanent long distance, casual partners or hook ups. I practice parralell polyamory, but I am open to meeting your other partners.