Hey!
I am a 32 y/o transsexual woman who's looking to join a dyad. I had no idea that this realm existed until last weekend where after talking for a week with a couple who were looking for a throuple, we met up for the first time. It was a wonderful experience, and I found exactly the type of relationship that I was looking for. An open, safe and comfortable environment. Unfortunately, despite the fact that we all loved every second of our time together, we are quite literally working on moving in different different directions. They are also far to busy to provide me with the attention that I desire, as they wanted to schedule our next date in about a month. That just won't work for me, as I'm ready to start moving forward with my life. On the way down to meet with them I started the book More than Two, to kinda get an understanding of this world which is how I found out about polyamory.
Openness, direct communication, and honesty are values that I hold to be paramount in any successful relationship, whether from business, to friendship, to romantic. And you will see this in this post. I'm kinda getting the turn offs out in the open upfront so you can make an informed decision. If any of this matters to you, please pass by.
I do not currently fully pass, but I am pretty. I hope to find a couple that are currently okay with that even though I'm not, but a little patience and time is all it will take to fix that. I am shy, have insecurities, and suffer from dysphoria, but im starting to break out of my shell.
I am 5' 11" Normal BMI with just a little extra fat. I'm a complete novice. Last weekend was my first and only sexual experience of any kind. I have yet to have my first kiss.
I have my kinks. Mostly BDSM, but dm for more info.
I'll end this post with this. I have so so much love to give to the right persons, and people generally find it really hard not to love me. I've let too much of my life pass by alone, and I am finally ready to remedy that and experience life to it's fullest.
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