Hi there!
My name is James, I’m 26 years old and I’m from the Netherlands. I’m gay and non-monogamous so queer ENM men who share my values are what I’m looking for when it comes to connections that go beyond platonic friendships. I’m autistic and have ADHD and prefer to date people with either or both too, it’s just natural.
I’m a tattoo apprentice and do production work while I’m still building my client base. I also do some SW on the side.
I draw for tattooing but also outside of that, both digitally and in paper. I also love to write. I have written two books but I spend most of my writing time on Harry Potter Marauders era fanfiction (although JKR can kiss my whole ass). I like to sing too and I’m practicing harsh vocals, currently working on releasing a black metal track with some friends which I’m very excited about. I’m practicing tin whistle too.
Music wise, my favorite band is Ghost, but I’m currently also listening to a lot of Lorna Shore, Skyforest, Infant Annihilator, Oracle Spectre, Empyrium and the Howling Void.
I’m a long term vegan (10 years next year!) and I’m an activist too, I help run an activism initiative. Other philosophies I’m passionate and outspoken about are antinatalism, antireligionism and the right to die. I also choose to live fully sober. I use ADHD meds because I need those to function, but I’ve been strictly off recreational drugs (including alcohol) for 8 years and intend to keep it that way.
Not unimportant here; my taste in men when it comes to looks… “Skinny pale guys with sunken eyes”, is how a former friend used to describe it. It’s fairly accurate, but of course there are men outside that description who I find hot too. Alternative boys have my heart.
Feel free to shoot me a message if this post piques your interest, also if you’re not looking to date me but want to connect platonically. 💌
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