I am actively practicing polyamory and currently have two partners one of which I am nesting with. I’m also a family man with 3 kids that always come first. I always date separately from my partners, so not looking to be with couples etc.

I’m looking for new friends, preferably ones I can talk poly with even if we ourselves are purely platonic. I am open to FWB and possibly more with the right person, however I am very much looking for the friends bit first and foremost so not interested in hookups or anything. Don’t judge those that do, it’s just not for me!

I have a big heart and a lot of love to give, but I also have a strong sense of right and wrong and a love of good stories and good humour! I love a good flirt and suggestive jokes always “go down” well with me.

I’m also not into excessively long conversations online before meeting people and would prefer to meet in person for a quick coffee or something relatively quickly to see how we get along. Saves us both time if we aren’t compatible!

If you’re still reading, thank you for taking an interest! So to add to that interest maybe I should mention that like many in the poly community I am a fairly kinky guy, with love language is definitely touch and though I consider myself demi-sexual once I’ve gotten to know you I am a very sexual person.

I am well versed in BDSM favouring the top position mostly but i have recently discovered that I also can switch rather well though still discovering my limits on the bottom side of things. I’ve some experience with most things whether it be restraint, impact, etc and I take great pleasure from the pleasure I give to my sexual partners.

Consent is incredibly important in all things and that works both ways, I will not be wanting to see explicit photos of people I do not know and am not intimately involved with. Please respect that!

Anyway if you’re still reading, maybe you’re mad enough to drop me a message?