In the past (through reddit) I connected with two established FF couples and recently another one which got me pondering poly-life again. So here I am.
I have lived experience in poly but do not share my partners (polyfidelis or monogamous). I want my partners to find a healthy balance that works for them. Not into cucking or open relationships, I am way to masculine and overprotective for that. I also don't want sister wives who "share" me and split my time, so the way it would work is if both partners are into each other (ideally before i enter the equation).
Looking for nesting partners who are open to the homestead life (with major city nearby). Think kids, cows, chickens, goats as the goal. Want truly committed and lasting relationships with women who know what they want.
Basics about me: 44, 6'2 Latino, single, no kids, no ex drama, no obligations. I live with my dog in house I built on my homestead less than an hour from a major city. I'm highly educated from a top engineering school, and worked in finance for most of the top banks on wall street. But in truth I hate banking and want to retire and be a farmer/app developer for my own account.
About you: cis woman 20 to 32, and with a real desire to commit to someone special. Exudes feminine energy, enjoys dressing cute and sexy, not insecure. Fit, 90-135lbs. Wants family, wants kids, non tobacco smoker, with no strange chemical dependencies. If you want to be a SAHM or want to be a professional and build your career, also fine by me. My only goal is to see you thrive and be happy.
Personalitywise: Man's man, old school masculine, teacher, supporting, leader type. Huge nerd with a touch of the 'tism but also socially aware, empathetic, and extroverted when I want to be. Very good with my hands (built a lot of my own house), very good with my brain, and exceptionally creative. Enjoy shooting, cooking, gardening, dancing.
Lifestyle stuff: Love travel, museums, exploration, knowledge, art, dancing (a lot actually). I generally live my life quietly with bursts of passion that I thrive off. I love nature, science, and astronomy, as well as philosophy and metaphysics. I have many hobbies (too many) but homesteading (in general) takes up most of my free energy these days. I don't attend church but was raised catholic if it matters to you.
Sexy stuff: I tend to laugh at people who build their whole personalities around a "lifestyle or aesthetic" so I hate using predefined words or ideas. That being said, you could call me a soft dom and a natural leader. There is nothing cooercive or forced in how I approach women. I like to seduce naturally and enjoy flirting and building tension. I have a wide range of experience with bdsm and caring for different sub head spaces (brats, ddlg, sub/dom, master/slave, pet owner, whatever). Not into humiliation, sharing, cucks, or degradation shit. I like to build people up, not tear them down.
Finally: I am a very transparent person and I am sharing some pics here. This isn't a throwaway account because I have nothing to hide. If you open a chat with me, include a picture please. I am not seeking a penpal or a online relationship. If you are in a relationship or cant travel, don't reach out please. If you cant prove to me you are a real person, I will lose interest very, very quickly. If we connect well and you don't want to meet, big red flag for me as well.
Look forward to hearing from you 🌹
(bonus pics if you got this far)
https://imgur.com/a/NvD9ADW (multiple)
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