Helloooo!! 🖤🦇🖤

When it comes to making any r4r type post, I like lists and ✨oversharing✨. So here goes:

About me: - Married 4.5yrs, child free, two cats. - Parallel Poly. - 5’11, mixed (naturally tanned), naturally curvy. Brown hair and brown eyes. Lots of piercings and lots of tattoos, witchy/goth aesthetic but I spend day to day in cycling shorts and nerdy tees. - She/Her, Pansexual queer (some kind of Grey Ace or Ace Flux and very Demi. Kinda have a hard time feeling sexually attracted to people but sometimes it clicks and it’s very intense). - I’m very chatty (be warned) I prefer lots of communication but I am realistic about it. I like to bug people throughout the day with questions, memes, music, voice notes etc. Just little things to let you know i’m thinking about you. I enjoy long deep conversations as well as superficial stuff. - I love to laugh and generally be a silly goose. I’m a very curious person, I love to learn from people and their perspectives. I enjoy being self aware and introspective. I definitely overthink a lot which can be a bit annoying but I just know it will come in handy one day 🤓. - In my spare time I love to read and to listen to audiobooks and podcasts. I love to go for bike rides and long walks in nature. I enjoy cooking and baking. Bonus points if you’re veggie/vegan/plant based. - I have travelled a fair bit, so would prefer someone who’s down for adventures. - Three years sober by choice and honestly don’t mind if you smoke/drink etc. - Love languages are quality time and acts of service. - My attachment style can be a little bit anxious but it’s something i’m working on but it is triggered by avoidance, please don’t be avoidant (unless you’re actively working on it too). - Neurospicy and I have some sensory issues with physical touch but we can talk about this more in detail later.

Looking for: - Ages 28 - 45 - Someone who is kind, friendly and easy going. - Someone who has the time, energy and enthusiasm for developing a connection and is consistent with this. - Please be self aware and take care of yourself both mentally and physically. I work really hard on myself, i’m always growing and learning and am looking for like minded people to experience this with. - Someone who is experienced in BDSM and looking for a long term D/s dynamic (this is super important). I used to be a switch but now i’m very much sub leaning. Kind of been out of the scene for a while so looking for someone who’s patient easing me back in.

🤔 I think that covers the basics haha, I hope you’ve enjoyed my post and I hope we speak soon. I’m very open to platonic relationships if things don’t work out.🖤🦇🖤