Hello again!

I have met so many lovely humans through here, and some flings went somewhere and some did not, but I’m ever the optimist and feel fortunate for the connections I have made.

I have a nesting partner and I am very casually going on dates, but no one serious yet. I date separately and prefer KTP, but it’s not a requirement. I’ve been poly all my life and prefer not to date newbies, sorry- I wish you luck on your journey but just don’t have the time or patience to navigate the classic growing pains.

I’m in Florida, but I’ve had partners in Georgia, NY, Washington state, DC, Missouri, and even across the pond. Distance isn’t ideal but isn’t an issue as long as you’re in a good spot to be able to travel too- I’ve dated those where I was the only one traveling to them, and I got burned out pretty quickly, which lead to resentment! Let’s avoid that! I love to travel and don’t mind doing it, but please don’t expect it after like two days of talking. Let’s get to know each other, let’s see if there’s a spark before we’re wasting gas or points on flight tickets. I’m child-free and will remain so, but don’t mind if you have your own, especially if they’re older.

I think that’s all the important, dealbreaker kind of stuff, so onto me…I’m a mess of a person with a big heart, and a bigger personality to match. I have lived a very colorful life, and I’ve realized I’m craving safety; stability, romance. I love to dote on someone, I love sending sweet notes and little surprise deliveries, and I’ve never been with anyone who reciprocated that energy. I love surprises, I love adventures, and I’m seeking someone who enjoys the same. I love to dance, sing, watch terrible movies, try new foods, and love being in water- bubble baths, kayaking, swimming in the springs are probably my favorite activities. I play games, video and tabletop, and am currently watching through the showā era Godzilla films for the thousandth time (although, I prefer when he has his little ears). I love live music and go to concerts as often as I can. I’m an amateur cellist as a hobby.

I want that little flutter in my tummy when someone texts me. I’m not a fan of NRE, it makes me feel a bit crazy, so I’m meaning more of a deep connection, the excitement you still feel months or years down the line for someone who is genuinely suited for you. I tend to prefer older people- in the bedroom I’m submissive and typically seek Daddy or Mommy Dom/mmes, but bdsm is a bonus but not a requirement. I’m very flexible and am more interested in the person. I love all genders, races, and body types- you’re all gorgeous to me! I’m a plus sized gal, I’m mixed race and am happy to exchange pictures sooner rather than later. I love dad jokes, so sending me one guarantees a response. If you read all of this, thank you! I’m always open to friends, too, so if you just want someone to chat with, I’m happy to talk your ear off. 😊