Hi! I'm looking to find a nesting partner to do whole 'get married and have kids' thing (eventually) and it seems reddit might be the best place to look for that.

Who am I? I'm a 31 year old woman living in the UK. I'm smart, a lil sassy, and an extrovert. My main hobbies are DIY and making cocktails (but I have a ton more). If I'm not smashing tiles off a wall you'll find me heading out with friends for a dance.

I've a great job, family, friend group and long distance partner. I also have an awesome dog and own my own house somehow!

In terms of kink I'm on the submissive side but please do not lead with a 100 questions about that, it's nice to know it's there but that doesn't define me.

So what am I looking for?

Preferably someone based in the UK or Ireland who is committed to the polyamory lifestyle who does not have a nesting partner. I am however also open to dating someone in Europe or the US (East Coast) as I am not tied to the UK by any means.

Someone who I gel well with, I'm looking for a best friend and I seem to love those who have a lot of energy and enthusiasm for life! I have a lot of energy for chatting when I like someone and if you meet me on that level then awesome.

Someone who is emotionally intelligent, ready for a serious commitment and can really communicate all the good AND the bad in a relationship. This shit takes work.

Preferably someone looking to have a kid or two, i'd prefer to adopt but am open to having my own.

Anyways if that sounds like you drop me a message!

P.s. I'm sorry cat owners but I have horrible allergies and my pet sees your pet as a snack so be aware I'm probably not for you.