Hey there! I'm a 28 year old man (technically nonbinary (AMAB) but I present as very masculine and have a beard but use whatever pronouns), 275lbs, 6ft tall. I'm looking to join a closed poly relationship as your third partner!

I'm also open to starting our own closed poly relationship! So if you want that, let me know!

I'm bi/pansexual - we can make whatever parts you've got work. I should note that all of my dating history has been with women though, so men may need to hold my hand as I learn the intricacies of a same-sex relationship.

I should note that I'm looking for something local, by local I mean either in my state (MA) or somewhere within reasonable driving distance. I'm probably not going to get on a plane to meet someone for the first time.

My hobbies:

Video games, specifically I'm mostly into strategy games like Civ (Civ V to be specific) and an old school MMO.

Fishkeeping - I keep both fresh and saltwater fishtanks! I love aquariums as well, might be a good date idea. Can talk your ear off about fish nerd stuff.

Anime - I watch way too much anime, more than I watch American TV at this point. My favorites are Ouran Highschool Host Club, Overlord, and Log Horizon.

Reading - I like to read or listen to audiobooks depending on the day, mostly Fantasy novels like Brandon Sanderson books and even some lit-RPGs.

What I'm looking for - Ideally I'd like to start or join a closed poly relationship, what that means is basically the opposite of an open relationship. Whereas in an open relationship partners are able to seek out and have their own partners without the involvement of their already existing partner(s), in a closed poly relationship - you date as a group. You seek out and date perspective future partners together! It's a bit more complicated to get everyone on the same page, but I (personally) find that it leads to more intimate and close relationships between all partners!

I'm not really particular about age, you can be older than me or younger (I guess just be over 21?), and I'm not particular about your gender either - whether you be men, women, enby, or anything else - what really matters to me is that we have shared interests that we can bond over! And I suppose it helps if you're cool people!

I know that it can be difficult to add a whole new person into your relationship, figuring out where we all stand, what roles we fill, and how our personalities mesh - so it's important to me that you're emotionally intelligent, mature, and willing to talk things out! Oh and I'd appreciate it if at least one of you is a bit of a yapper! I tend to yap on about anything even slightly interesting so it'd be cool to have someone to talk too about random stuff! Anyway, thank you for taking the time to read this whole thing! If you did and you're going to send me a message, add the word "leash" to your message so I can tell that you did!

Thanks <3