Recently I moved home and I have no idea how that changes my opportunity to meet someone, but I figured I'd cast my net out again. I may be able to relocate under certain circumstances.

I want to get married and have a family. I am partnered but I don't have any sort of life partner of my own, odds had it that everyone I've dated or am dating either doesnt want that, or is already committed to another in that regard. I don't seek to have an exclusive marriage and nuclear family, but I do want marriage and an integrated family. The legality of the marriage is a non-issue to me, but I want my marriage(s) to be as committed as any other. So, if you're open to the idea of and available to be a life partner and parent, please read on!

I'm Ari, 28 years old, demisexual, genderfluid, and obviously polyamorous. I'm open to sending pictures once we have talked a bit. I am a recovered, medicated borderline and I also manage my mental health with cannabis, so 420 friendly is a must. I'm leftist and atheist.

I am kinky, and finding a relationship with someone that can be a dominant presence in my life is a strong hope I have. I am a sadomasochistic switch, but have been burnt out on taking charge for a while now. I'm happy to get more into specifics in DMs 😊

I'm a maker, I make all kinds of things but lately I've been doing a lot of embroidery work on my embroidery machine and making plush animals to sell at craft shows and whatnot. I love crafting, painting, drawing, building things, anything I can do with my hands. I also love playing video games, mostly PvE survival especially with story-rich RPG elements. The Long Dark is a good example of my kind of video game. Also I just tried Omega Strikers and I am SO down to playing with you 😁 I love animation and watch cartoons more than anything else, both adult and young adult cartoons (in the vein of ATLA), And I enjoy a lot of comedic shows as well. Community and The Good Place are two of my faves. I prefer fantasy over sci-fi but as long as we're cuddling, I can try to watch anything. I love board game nights and puzzles, I really would love to have a partner that wants to spend time doing stuff together beyond what's on a PC as well. I've been growing a garden (that I'm currently neglecting x.x), I've planted flowers and vegetables, both. I'd love to share that with someone. I love indie music and a bunch of other genres, but getting into specifics is annoying. Just know that I have a soft spot for nautical ballads and I collect vinyl records!

If you've made it this far, I assume you're either a very dedicated reader or interested in me. For the latter of you, feel free to reach out to me via messages or preferably reddit chat. Hit me with two truths and a lie if that helps you break the ice, just please put more effort into it than "hey"