Hello,

My nesting partner has recently discovered that they may be ace. I want to 100% support them and explore this dynamic with them. However, at times my libido is high so this presents some challenges for me. They have gone out with others in the past but I have not really myself. This feels like a good time for me to put myself out there, however I would like to take it slow and find the right person or people. I am seeking to develop sexual intimacy, however I've only really ever had those feelings or interests within relationships so I would want to it to be with someone that I can have a bond with.

I'm amab non-binary. I've been exploring presenting in a balance of femme and masc so it's important to be with people who are open to queer identities. The F includes trans woman. Trans men as well and queer folk welcome, however I tend to be attracted to femme people mostly. If not full on partners, a close friend kind of dynamic may be alright.

Being mutually leftist is crucial as well.

I tend to be a pretty active person. I work out semi often. I love to get out in nature and so does my dog. I love animals, and I have a cat as well. Ask me for pictures. I'm technically vegetarian and try to be vegan as much as possible.

I smoke weed and am into psychedelics occasionally / when I can get them. I drink a little but not super often.

I'm into punk and metal bands for the most part but there are artists pretty much every genre music that I like. I enjoy getting out to shows. I'm also writing and close to recording with my own music but have not put anything out recently.

I have a data center job. My schedule tends to be kind of random and hectic. I'm trying to get into something else IT related when it comes about

I do a little gaming but have been trying to be more productive with my creativity.

I'm interested in exploring some kink with the right person but not mandatory.

Those are kind of the big things about me but I have other interests and I'm a very open person and will try most things

I live on the north side of Chicago but my job has me semi often in Wisconsin so I'm open to meeting someone in that area too, we could hang out when I come up

If reading this has caught your interest, feel free to DM me. I think I would like to start with video chatting and then if there's a vibe figure out some time to meet up

If you need an opener, show me something you've been listening to or watching recently.

If you want to DM me on discord instead of Reddit my username is opticalfalicy

Thanks for reading