I've always been into CNM and I'm interested in a healthy poly relationship. I consider myself to be ambiamorous, because im open to both Monogamy & Polyamory. I love the feeling of being in a commitment and having a companion with whom you share your life experiences; I also enjoy the pleasures of having more than one intimate partner, so what I want is a relationship that can fulfill both.

I'm open to a relationship with separate partners, either equal or hierarchical, but would prefer the kind of relationship where we can bond through sharing a romantic partner (or partners). Group sex is something I really enjoy and is something I'd like to be able to incorporate in my relationships, at least on occasion.

I have different goals for the short-term vs long-term...

Short-term: As mentioned in my title, I'm new to this so I'd like to explore a bit in the short-term to figure out what works best. I'm open to a variety of poly styles as I look to date around. Some of those styles being; A trouple (FFM), a quad, or solo poly.

Long-term: If I find the right person, I want to focus on a monogamish, or hierarchical style of polyamory. I enjoy the security of a dynamic with primary and secondary partners. One day, I want to build a future and a family with someone I deeply love and choose everyday. In that relationship, I want for our family to take priority, but still have the flexibility to date others, and potentially share an intimate secondary partner.

Note - For sharing an intimate secondary partner where we're both romantically involved with the same person, it can only be FFM for me because I'm not attracted to other men sexually. However, that doesn't mean MFM is off the table. In that situation, it would be us bringing in one or more people for the purpose of a threesome or group sex (e.g. MFMF).

 About Me

In terms of appearance, I'm black, 6'ft, with a muscular dad bod type of build. I'm fairly attractive, typically clean cut and have tattoos.

(NSFW pics on my profile.)

Sexually, I'm kink/fetish-friendly, very dominant, and also like to switch. I appreciate a woman who similar to me, is a pleasure giver. I'm really enthusiastic about pleasing my partner, I enjoy rough play and potentially some degrading. Please keep in mind, that providing aftercare to my partner is something that's important to me.

I prefer a women who's mostly submissive, but some dominance is always welcome. I'm not into pegging but I do enjoy playing "king of the hill" type games where we fight in bed for who gets to be on top, being forced to blow my load, and being used (for example: having my face sat on, being squirted on, and being made to worship your body by you directing me or doing something like stick your toes in my mouth during intercourse).

Moving away from the NSFW stuff; I'm a foodie, outdoorsy, adventurous, someone who likes deep conversation, and I'm the type who demands respect because I always try to show it.

I'm gregarious, which just means I like to be in the company of others, I can also be very vocal, and charismatic. My energy is a relaxed and I have strong, confident posture.

Some people find me intimidating but all my friends agree that I'm a teddy bear when you get to know me.

I'm an open book, so if there's anything you'd like to know just ask 😊

 Let's talk boundaries

Something that is non-negotiable for me is having a partner who is trustworthy, loyal, and communicates effectively.

I believe there needs to be a conversation prior to having relations with others. It's not about controlling anyone as I am not the type, it's about building a relationship where all parties feel safe and informed.

Being able to discuss meeting people, having expressed consent to pursue something with a new person, and sharing details of what's happening in your relationship with them are what I think is best for maintaining a healthy poly relationship. Unless we've agreed on not sharing details and mutually agree to freely see who we'd like. Hooking up with people without communicating and being dishonest will be viewed as cheating.

(I hope this is something we can agree on)

 Reaching Out

If you're interested in what I had to say and want to get to know each other a bit more, consider sending a message.

I'd like to know what your type of poly relationship you're looking for and go from there 🙂

My DM's are open to single female's as well as established couples. After some talking and verifying, we can definitely meet up for a drink and some food, or try something unconventional.

Serious inquires only, and please be kind

Thank you!