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Salam everyone, I am looking for a spouse that's local to me or doesn’t mind moving to me. I am also open to moving to you as well depending on how this works. I’m seeking someone who is kind, patient, understanding, family oriented, has a good sense of humor (preferably dark humor) and puts deen over everything not culture and is sunni. Ethnicity wise I would prefer someone desi but not a must.Â
I want someone who is not materialistic and ideally is realistic as well. I do want someone who is a hijabi or more. However if you don’t wear one but still think you’re practicing and are a fit feel free to dm me as well. Obviously knows how to cook, clean, single and don’t worry I will be helping as well. Ideally you don’t mind living with your in-laws but have no fear it would be a temporary situation inshallah. Someone who knows the islamic rights of both husband and wife.
I want to emphasize communication as communication is KEY!! Don’t let anything bottle up inside. Feel free to communicate with me openly and honestly. I can be pushy at times but feel free to keep me on the narrow path. I’ve had things fall through before because the potential had an issue which was not communicated properly before.
And when I say halal in the streets and haram in the sheets I really do mean that. Meaning we should be practicing muslims and enjoy kinky sex. Again this means putting deen over everything and striving to be the best muslims we can be. Kinks and limits can be discussed in the dms.
So a little about me I have black hair and brown eyes with an MSc in computer science. I'm an introvert but once I'm comfortable I can be quite outgoing.I’m 25, 5’4, 160 lbs (I'm working on it I hate it so much) and desi (pakistani). Unfortunately I got laid off and am looking for work currently. I would love to work in the states (Cali or Texas most likely) or UAE.Â
I’m a very affectionate person so expect lots of hugs and kisses. I also like to be little spoon time to time so please be ok with that. My love langues are physical touch and words of affirmation. Meaning I would want you to say you love me, recognize and appreciate my efforts for our family. I’m also a leo with an intj personality type if that matters. I would say my worst trait is being impatient and stubborn at times. Like if there is a line for food for one place but the other doesn’t I’m picking the one with one line.
I want kids ideally 5 but given how expensive everything is one boy and girl will do. I don’t mind if you work but we have to come up with a good way to run our household from bills to chores to parenting styles etc. Speaking of which, my parenting is active/authoritative. I will shower my kids with affection but won;t hesitant in beating their ass if they mess up big time.
My likes are anime, gaming, biking, fitness, basketball, long drives (to be fair I’ve always been a passenger), trying new things/food, traveling and cats.
My dislikes are waiting in long lines or on my food and waking up early.
That’s about it. Dm me if you’re interested. Thank you for reading and have a nice day!
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