Last year I was diagnosed with ADHD and it's been one hell of a ride. Everything came into HD like focus and everything crashed down simultaneously. It's a unique experience only some will appreciate.

It now makes sense as to why I've constantly sought out people to chat and connect with. My brain likes the novelty of one or two ongoing conversations. I also enjoy the process of getting to know people. The energetic and neurochemical exchanges that happen brings a balance to my everyday that is otherwise difficult for me to maintain on my own.

I love people and being social. I want to use what I'm learning about myself to improve the relationships I already have and build better, longer lasting ones in the future.

My goal is to land anywhere from really good friends to platonic love. Don't know what that is exactly? Google it. I had to. 😆 I didn't realize there was a term for what I've been trying to describe for years.

So... I'm here looking for people who want:

💜 A chat buddy for everyday stuff. 💙 A best friend for the highs and lows. 💚 An accountability partner to help with productivity. 🧡 A mature mind that can handle closeness but respect boundaries. ❤️ A little more involvement so there's emotional connection and openness.

About Me: First time dog owner. My pup is literally the cutest but she's a handful. Married 10 years with 3 kids that I've homeschooled for 7 years. I'm spiritual not religious. Getting out into nature more consistently is a goal. And, I really love to be creative. I'm busy but I make time for the things and people that are important to me. There's more of course but these are the basics. I'm not switching platforms right away. If there's mutual interest I have Telegram. It's also worth noting... I like people who read profiles. If you message me. Use a heart emoji in your message and instantly get my attention.

Online is preferred. In-person if distance isn't super far AND we like each other that much.

About You: Cool with what's been said. Be kind yet direct when needed. Positive. Fun. Know what it means to be ethical. Have a casual understanding of ADHD or be willing to learn. I'm still very much learning myself. Be active in taking steps forward no matter how small. Sense of humor. Good communication, somewhat chatty, and please be able to carry a conversation over text... and whatever else you bring to the table.

Interested? Send me a message.

*Couples are always an interesting dynamic. If you each are emotionally intelligent enough to have a good or better relationship already and are looking for friends, reach out.