Hello! This is me.

I will start this out by saying that while I have always known I'm polyamorous I have only been free to be myself in the last two years.

To make a very very long story very short, I was in 17 year long abusive marriage. I was manipulated and gaslit into monogamy. I managed to escape and now I'm in a very happy relationship with my fiancé, who was my high school sweetheart. Although we have a bdsm dynamic (caregiver little) we are ethically non monogamous and I am free to date as long as I stay within boundaries. I am not looking for another bdsm dynamic, but I am open to it with the right person.

I love attention and can be a little bit clingy until I'm sure you won't ghost. I have a chronic illness that is a permanent disability. I experience debilitating fatigue among many other symptoms. But it's OK! It just means I have more time on my hands to spend with the right person. I wake up every day tired, but filled with joy because of all the good things in my life.

I am looking for a connection that starts online. I would love to eventually meet, but talking about that now is putting the cart before the horse. I want someone that I can talk to about anything and everything and get to know all about each other.

I am on the east coast and my fiancé works either second or third shift. So while I am alone in the evenings I do have time to chat all day long.

I love doing crafts of any kind but have a particular talent for crochet and certain types of origami. I love all things scifi and fantasy and consider myself to be part of several different fandoms.

Being a "little" I am very affectionate. I do need to feel safe in order to progress from affection to anything sexual. Feeling safe and cared for is a big deal for me.

If you have attention and affection to give and can go at my pace I promise you that having me in your life will be rewarding. I hope to hear from you soon!