Hello, i am new to this subreddit so i have no idea if this post will be okay or not but here we go lol 😅

I (20 transf (find it important to specify the trans because of jerks online)) am poly, have been for 5-ish years now? 4? Cant remember when i actually first ctried it and found it right for me x3. Anyways, i am wanting to find someone. I am currently in an irl relationship with my gf (20) and have been together for 1.5 years (celebrated recently because couldnt celebrate 1 year) and i have had other partners here and there through that time but either they leave me for someone else, are toxic people that i need to break away from, or my being poly becomes too much for them and they leave. It has been just me and my gf for around 7 months now i believe and i have been okay with it but i am feeling love deprived because of her family.

Her family wants to break us apart and have been trying since 5 months into our relationship and for our 7th monthiversary they decided to be narcissistic a-holes and ban me for falsified claims they made. So to keep the peace with her family, we have been super distant. At first we almost didnt talk let alone do anything irl just to let things calm down and stuff before we finally started messaging regularly again like we used to before the ban which wasnt a lot (when we had interesting things to talk about or when we missed each other enough to tell each other, otherwise we were independant). But our what we call "hang outs" were still non-existant until a couple months ago, probably around 4 months. With doing hang outs again, we have done more but it is still extremely limited and is almost at 1 hang out per 2.5 weeks.

I have been, have been, okay with it. But with some things going on with myself it would be the most helpful for me to have that more partner type love interactions like extended hugs and kisses and cuddles and hand holding and all that which just isnt possible for my gf to give me/let me give her because of her family. So, i am interested in finding another partner that i can love and be loved by unrestrictedly, preferrably nearby irl but across the world online is okay. Feel free to shoot me a dm or comment here if you are interested ^{^}

Bonus: me and my gf are demisexual/romantic (for those who dont know, need emotional bond before attraction. She is more demiromantic than i am) and she is also poly. We are also both sort of figuring out our sexualities, her more than me but, currently it would seem she is pansexual and i am gyne/finsexual on top of our demisexualness.