I’m 31, poly, male, and newly single after a 7-year marriage to my former nesting partner (she was my first and my only partner so far); I have one long-distance (in another country) girlfriend.
I’m looking for another poly person or a poly couple to help me move on, heal, and explore my sexuality and poly identity with. Ideally, I’d love to be friends first, go on fun dates and do fun things together, to build a sense of trust, camaraderie and a deeper and more fulfilling connection that is more than just raging hormones. Trust, intimacy and connection, both in and out of the bedroom is a must. I also prefer a kitchen table approach to poly, but am open to other forms as long as everyone is on the same page and clear communication and boundaries are set. I also would be open to living together or cohabitation with the person or persons I’m with.
Things I like to do and hobbies of mine. I’m into games of various stripes (video, board, tabletop, and card), books, TV shows and movies. I’m a foodie who likes pizza, good drinks of both the boozy and non-boozy type, international dishes and deserts. I’m also an accomplished musician (concert pianist and operatic countertenor) who was just, as of December last year, awarded a doctorate in music composition! And as of May this year released my first full-length album of music I composed.
I have no kids of my own and no plans, for now, to change that. I have had a vasectomy, so the only way I’m having kids is by having the procedure reversed or by adopting. I’m also 420 friendly and partake myself.
I prefer in-person relationships over internet only as one of my strongest love languages is physical touch. I’m also not opposed to long-distance if the chemistry and vibe is right and we both can travel to visit and do fun things.
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