HI! I’m 38 and Enby. AMAB and Masc presenting. They/He pronouns.

I’ve been very happily married for 15 years and poly for that entire time, w/ strong opinions about the ethics of priority, privilege, and hierarchy. I date solo, though non-compulsory kitchen table can be just a delight.

Very Relationship Anarchy aligned, but not religiously so.

💜💛🖤🏳️‍🌈Primarily, very intentionally, growing my poly/queer/neurodivergent community 🧠🌶️💪

I’m demisexual and demiromantic. I’ve learned through trial and error that I don’t like front-loading/rushing romantic connection before building a certain level of trust, and prefer to really focus on building meaningful friendships with the space for that to build and grow organically.

I’m also just way past the point of mediocre connection 😅

All of that said, I am highly energetic, adventurous, and playful when there’s good chemistry. Very switchy/fluid and service-oriented. 6’, athletic/lanky, ⚖️♎️ and I’m told I’m quite pretty ☺️

I’m bi/pansexual, and connect with all genders.

I’m looking for people who are actively working to understand their own internalization and normalization of living in a white supremacist, capitalist, colonialist, patriarchy, and work toward something different.

I’m considerate, loquacious, effusive, and seeking similar.

Emotional awareness and the ability to self/co-regulate are really important to me. Ideally looking for folks who are maybe also embracing their own second adolescence.

Not Sober, but very sensitive to substance use and am seeking people who are balanced in that regard.

I find shared activities are a really great way to build relationships.

I’m especially seeking joy and play with new special interest friends who are looking to “yes and” my excitement and in turn be “yes-anded”

I have a lot of special interests, including:

🌊🌅 Freediving, Spearfishing, Fishing, Ocean Kayaking🤿🎣

🚜🪵 Construction, Milling, Fine Carpentry 🪚🌱

🌲🏔️ Camping, Foraging, Hunting, Farming, Homesteading 🍄🏕️

🍳🍞Cooking, Fermenting, Preserving, Picnics, Potlucks, Baking 🍗🍱

📷🎥 Photography, Videography, Music Recording/Performance🎶🥁

🕹️🎮Gaming, especially if you’re into POE/Tarkov/ESO 🤩🤯

I love to read, mostly psych, fantasy, and Sci-Fi.

Favorite books: 📚🥰Polysecure, Nonviolent Communication, The Will to Change, Lord of the Butterflies 🐉🚀 Brando Sando, Anne Leckie, NK Jemisen, Jenn Lyons, James SA Corey, Robin Hobb, Joe Abercrombie

I’m obsessed with any content by Madeline Pendleton, Michael Hobbes, and Jason Pargin.

I spent about 70% of my time in Los Angeles, and the rest in Mendocino County where I’m working on expanding an off the grid homestead. I’m currently in the process of felling trees and milling the lumber for bragging rights, and planning a very open-ended future there.

I….. think that’s about it? Enough words? Enough words 😊