31/26 [MF4F] Germany / Europe - looking for our missing part

Hello Reddit!

I‘m (26/F) gonna preface this that while me and my partner (31/m) are looking for a women we would preferably date together and form a triad, we won’t be forcing you to do that if you happen to only hit it off with one of us. However, we really like lap-sitting polyamory so if you decide to date only one of us, you’ll get the other as a buddy-bonus on top.

About me: I‘m 157cm in height, pale, brown eyes and hair with big round glasses. I work as a librarian in a public library and freelance as an Illustrator as a hobby. I love cooking and baking, playing video games, reading and playing DnD.

About him: 175cm in height, tanned skin, dark brown/black eyes and hair. Working as an environmental scientist as well as getting a masters degree in that field. Loves video games, anime, hiking and music.

About us as a whole: We‘re living together in a nice apartment near Düsseldorf in Germany. We‘d love to find someone we can spend time with online and offline, we‘re open to traveling but you should be too. We‘re also open to learn a new language should your native tongue not be German or English!

We‘re both huge nerds, enjoying anime, Disney and videogames. Our favorite days are spent either going out enjoying nature or gaming together. Our taste in games fits pretty much everything from cozy to hardcore difficulty, but we’re both playing Final Fantasy 14. Apart from online games we have a growing collection of tabletop games as well.

We‘re in a lifestyle D/s relationship which you can, but don’t have to be, part of. However, we’re not planning on hiding it around you.

Honest and open communication is extremely important to us. Feelings shouldn’t be hidden until they explode but shared. We know there are difficulties in every relationship but being poly adds on a whole other layer of possibilities. We‘re certain that everything can be worked through with communication, patience and the willingness to grow together.

If you are interested or have any questions, please do not hesitate to message us!