I am optimistically looking for a polyamorous woman in the Southern California area to form a foundational friendship. I prefer my relationships to organically develop into what they are meant to be. If they lead to physical and/or romantic levels, that would be great. If not, then I would be happy to add another poly friend to my growing poly network.

I don't really have any age restrictions, I'm looking for a connection. I would prefer someone who is relatively close to my location in Lake Elsinore. IE, OC, LA, and SD are probably the best options. A healthy understanding of emotional intelligence would be awesome and I am big on communication and transparency as well (going both ways). I don't don't expect you to be perfect, but know and own your shit. Therapy is sexy.

Someone who has kids would be ideal, or at least a healthy understanding of the logistics involved in poly dating, with kids. Experience with KTP or Garden Party, preferred, but not required. Physically, I like HWP partners and find Mom bods very sexy!

About me:

Father of 4 that is married in a KTP dynamic. Our preference is for everyone to be friendly, if not friends. We each date separately (and, rarely, together). I actually introduced my wife to her current Meta and we are becoming very close friends. I don't currently have any other active partners, but I do have several budding friendships that have potential.

I am 5’8” and value all aspects of health (Physical, mental, and emotional). I am a huge advocate for sexual safety (if things end up there eventually) for all people involved, so I have a very strong stance on informed consent and regular STI testing (My last test was in March 2024).

You can find relatively recent pictures of me here:

https://imgur.com/a/bl2UDDS

Current interests are:

- Mentoring (professional and personal)

- Home repair/small building projects

- Homesteading and self-sufficiency

- Birth work

- Growing/gardening

- Motorcycle riding and tinkering

- Kink (happy to share in private chats)

Other items that I enjoy doing/discussing:

- Tech

- Gaming

- Fiction (primarily Sci-fi/fantasy)

- World history

- Emotional Intelligence