Hi!! I’m Kai! I am from Maryland. I have ADHD & depression and I am 420 friendly with a med card. but managing it and it takes me a while to write about myself and I switch topics a lot so bare with me! I am going to try and be as transparent as I can about myself, My character, my kinks, anything you want to ask or follow up on just LMK. I am an open book and value transparency and being upfront! FIRST AND MOST IMPORTANT: I am Poly and in a Main relationship for the Past 3 years with my nesting partner. We have spent a long time trying to figure out what works for us and we have finally got there. I learned I can only have enough room in my heart for one other person so we came to an agreement that I can have one other long term relationship. I value having time for both and never having one of my partners feeling neglected or unwanted.We also date separately due to some issues between us when we tried to do that. We do keep each other informed of the progression and any changes or big updates for each relationship and you would get updates about the others as well. Any communication would be in passing like a hello or an initial introduction.Second I can be busy at times so I ask for patience since I own my own company and I gotta pay my bills. I am a very caring and sweet person. I will ask you about your day in the evening and let you vent to me all you want and send a good morning message in the morning and wish you a good day. I am an INFJ T personality and love animals, Music, Relaxing in the sun on a nice day, PC Gaming such as Valorant and OW2! I am a huge Golden Girls fan and a typical Golden Retriever lesbian who would jump through hoops to make you happy. Yes that means I am Submissive but have about 10% of dominance in me(you can ask me for my BDSM test results) . I am an average cook and active but still bigger (plus sized) . I'm 5'9 and my chest is my best feature. Music is a love language for me and I will send you songs all the time that will probably remind me of you or express how I am feeling about us at the time. I am mixed Black and white so please be ok with that. I can travel to you since I love to travel domestically or foreign. My favorite Home away from home is Berlin Germany. My favorite band is Dave Matthew Band. I probably love too hard but her everyone deserves someone to love them har. I am also an old soul who still loves to read a newspaper with a cup of tea on Saturday morning. I am a homebody but love to go outdoors and go camping or hiking and have adventures outside with my senior dog. If i seem .like a vibe to you Please dont be shy and send me a DM. Let's connect :) I am a rare breed of human so take a chance on me. Thanks for taking the time to read this!!