me: plus size, cute & nerdy 30s female in new york. pansexual so open to any gender - or potentially couples if the vibe is right. married, and open to discussing specifics in private, though I will promise nothing shady going on.
HWP, busty, can be dominant or submissive depending on the vibes. not much I wouldn’t at least try once sexually, outside of the obvious extreme stuff. DDF outside of 420, and you must be too.
non sexual interests include reading, writing, discovering new music, crafting (ADHD so the hyperfixation of the moment changes often), trying new drinks (teas, gin cocktails, boba).
you: could be single, married, or a couple looking for a third. MUST be ENM if you’re partnered in any way, no shady shit please. body type doesn’t matter as long as you’re clean and hygienic. most important quality is basic human decency - I’m more than just a kink dispenser to experiment with. developing the F of FWB is of highest importance. I crave being able to go to the movies or ice cream or something cute together, chatting throughout the day, being more than just one of many booty calls.
us: able to make easy conversation beyond sexual interests. able to meet at least a few times a month. great communicators about vibes, feelings, friendships, etc. interested in doing normal things like getting lunch, coffee, watching tv together and cuddling.
I am not looking to be one of many fwbs. I’m genuinely looking for a kind, consistent, and kinky secondary (or 1 if you’re a couple) partner(s) to share life with. Not looking to be someone’s secret.
thanks for reading~
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