Hey there,

I’m looking for someone for conversation during the day, some laughs, flirting, and more. Someone local would be wonderful for fun dates to coffee/museums/music/restaurants/stand-up but I have had amazing online relationships with long-distance partners in the past so distance is not a huge factor if the vibes are great. I value an emotional connection just as much as a physical one. In terms of relationship dynamics, I have practiced parallel poly with my nesting partner for several years now, and I also have one long-distance partner at the moment.

Physically, I’m 6’, white, and active - hitting the gym on my evening commute is my mental buffer between work and home. I’m no fitness model and never will be, I played offensive line in my youth and that body is always going to be there - think Jason Kelce, not Travis. I’m a gentle giant though, always happy to drop what I’m doing and lend a hand. I love animals but dogs have my heart, I keep treats in my trunk just in case I see one at the park, and if you show me a puppy, you’ll see a grown man squee.

I’m an engineer (absolutely ISTJ), I develop, analyze, and verify software for a living. I delight in making people laugh, whether it’s making puns or firing memes back and forth. In a social setting I may be one of the quieter ones but get me one-on-one and I can be a chatterbox. In my spare time, I’m doing some creative writing, building Legos, practicing mindfulness, walking or hiking, going to a game or a comedy club, taking my kids to Cub Scouts or skunking them on the Switch… basically being a Suburban White Dad™ (and yes I have the New Balances. You know the ones. They’re my mowing shoes.)

Honesty, loyalty, and good communication are critical for me. I’m easygoing, reliable, kind, fun, and I can listen to others without judgement. I’ve been told there’s something steady and disarming about me, and that I have a way of taking emotions out of a situation and giving unbiased advice.

If any of that appeals to you and this message is still up, send me a message and let’s talk! How did you get into polyamory?What’s the last show you binged? A trip that is on your bucket list? I look forward to getting to know you.