Hello to anyone reading this post! I finally feel in at a point where I can start pursuing (slowly) romantic attachments again. I’m hoping to find people in Orange County, San Diego, or Los Angeles. If you’re outside the region, sorry, not interested.

Right off the bat, there are things that are highly important to me and a dealbreaker in a relationship. I’m a leftist politically, so we won’t get along if you’re not aligned the same. I’m bi and I only date bi/pan people or people who like more than one gender, based on what I enjoy sexually and for community reasons. I’m also childfree, I’ve never wanted kids and will never have kids, I’d want any partner to be the same way. I don’t date couples but I’m very interested in practicing kitchen table polyamory.

If you’d like to know more about the kinky side of me, peruse my post history, as I want to focus on the vanilla side of me here. Though I’m also happy to chat more about that in the DMs.

I love video games and I play on my switch and PC. Goal for me right now is to put together a gaming PC that can run Baldur’s Gate 3 and the other games I enjoy playing (that’s something we can talk about in chat because otherwise this post would go on forever). I love my Lenovo that got me through law school but she isn’t meant for my gaming era. My other favorite special interest is TTRPGs like Dungeons & Dragons 5e and Pathfinder 2e. I’d love to talk to you about the campaigns I’m in for both and how I want to start DM‘ing along with my ideas for one shots. I really could talk about both subjects for a long time!

I play piano and need an accountability partner for practice. Preferably someone to check in daily and encourage me to do my practice or give me some cheerleading boost. Only if that’s your thing to do so! I don’t want to exhaust you of spoons. I want to learn the ukulele so once I get that tuned I’m down to business! I’m also wanting to learn crochet but need to actually sit down and do it. If you’re able to crochet and can give me some starting tips, I would love that!

I love to be outdoors when I can and enjoy a variety of outdoor activities. I do enjoy my homebody moments but I much prefer to be outside. Hiking, river rafting, horseback riding, activities like that you can count me in for! I really do value good company, because if I have good company then any time with those people is well worth it and fun. I also adore those late night conversations at a table or couch with people, we’ve been talking a while and enjoying ourselves. Little moments like that greatly appeal to me!

If this post resonates with you, please shoot me a Reddit chat with your age, location, and anything else you find relevant!