So I’ll start off with my relationship status, I’m hierarchal poly, with my husband of 8 years. We have 3 kids and live together. We are ethically non-monogamous, so he is completely aware of everything I do, and vice versa, and we respect each other/ other partners. We date separately so I’m just looking for myself. I don’t always have a lot of time to meet, but I have a huge amount of time to text. My husband works nights, so meeting depends on how well he has slept, if he can take the kids so I can go out. I also cannot drive.

Now, what I’m looking for, I’m looking for a man that I can talk to daily. That really enjoys texting. That will be patient about meeting and not try to pressure me into meeting before I’m comfortable. That wants to get to know me, and that I will allow me to get to know him. I want to have the mundane conversations like “what did you do today?” “what did you eat for lunch?” etc.. and have a real conversation. I don’t want to get stuck in a loop of “how are you?”, “I’m good”, “oh that’s good”… I want real conversation… tell me if you went to the dentist, and what you had done.. tell me if you went to lunch with your mom and how you feel about your parents , and what your favorite thing at that restaurant is. Talk to me. Actually talk to me.

A bit about me, I’m a stay at home mom, cleaning, cooking, and taking care of my kiddos is basically my whole life at the moment. I don’t go out often or do much outside of taking care of others. But some things I enjoy(even if I’m not actively able to always do them) are: Trying new restaurants and foods, cooking new recipes, fairs, musicals, Disney movies, community gatherings like pumpkin patches, all things fall, horror movies, going to the movies, taking pictures, I love capturing a good nature photo, I love museums, art, and currently binging greys anatomy.

My stats: 5’4 Fat,(3X) Puertorican and White

If you have read all this and I sound like someone you’d like to get to know.

Please DM me a picture of your face, your age, where you’re located(seeking locals), your ENM relationship status, your favorite food, and a little blurb about what you’re like or into in life.

I’m open minded with age, body type, and race. I don’t have any “hard no’s” on any of that. I just need to feel connection.

Hopefully I hear from you.💕