Hi polyam friends!

My name is Butterfly and I am 34 years old. I live in Alberta, Canada with my husband of 7 years and our fur babies. I also have two long distance partners. I am so lucky to have what I do, so why am I posting here? I am still missing something - maybe that's you!

I love the beginning of a new relationship, getting to know somebody, making that connection and creating the magic together. I want to have the butterflies in my tummy.

A bit about me:

- I am sweet and have been told I am adorable. I am a total princess (but not in a spoiled way). I am girly and feminine.

- I am plus size. I am working on learning to love myself in my own body, while also working on being healthier overall.

- I have rediscovered my love for reading and read 70 books last year. I also enjoy bowling, binge watching TV shows, being crafty, board games and spending time with "my people".

- This year I am specifically working on stepping outside of my comfort zone. In April I will be acting in a play with our local theater group!

- I like to say that I am 5 years old on the inside. I love Disney, glitter, and stuffies. I like to indulge my inner child!

- I blush way too easily.

- I am a switch. If you know you know .... (I also have over 150 toys)

- I work remotely from home and have the time to chat during the day.

- While I am usually pretty busy, I always have time to connect with the people who matter to me. I am a great listener and I am loyal to those I love.

What I am looking for:

Honestly? I don't know. I am open to friendship. a good conversation, an online play partner, or falling in love. While all of my relationships have been with men, I am open to exploring a connection with a man, woman or somebody who is trans or genderfluid. I do have some preferences though:

- A good sense of humour. Willing to have fun and laugh. I love bantering and teasing, so being able to take it, as well as give it back is a huge plus.

- Over the age of 27 but under 47.

- Physical looks don't matter so much to me. However, if you are a big teddy bear of a man, have tattoos and/or a beard, that is a plus.

- Time zones don't matter so much, as long as you have time to talk during my waking hours - MT time zone.

If any of the above interests you, I would love to hear from you! Please send me a chat or message with a bit about you. If you just say Hi, I am less likely to answer. Don't make me do all the work with the conversation.

Can't wait to chat!