Hi I Matthew or Matt as most people call me. More then happy to exchange pics in dms.

I am looking to talk to new people to chat with and potentially date and see where it goes well and very open minded so the only thing I am not looking for is someone who wants kids ( if you already have kids that's fine ) as I just don't desire that. I am open to any kind of poly dynamic so whatever if your preference like kitchen table or complete no contact with the other people and anything in-between. I currently am dating 1 person and also have 1 partner in Canada LDR almost 3 years which we plan to close the distance but atm no timeline for it due to many reasons. I am looking to date solo but I am open to other possibilities if it is what everyone wants.

Some things about me I'm 5 10 tattooed (full sleeve) long dark brown hair dark brown eyes I weigh 240 pounds and working on it. Currently looking for someone who that has some overlapping interests like gaming (I'm play pc and love alot of genres but specially rpgs), going to the movies (special soft spot for scifi/fantasy/stop motion/puppetry) watching anime (most genres but my fav is iseka/fantasy/scifi) / shows going to concerts(love metal concerts they make me so happy for ages after going) exploring new places/nature/history/art/technology and a smattering of other stuff. Its no fun if we have nothing in common to talk about at all haha. I love sharing stories and talking shit and I am great at listening to others too I really enjoy learning more about people I have a curious mind. I also like going on walks and museums and other interesting things like old buildings with a lot of history and other things like that i am very curious by nature so expect me to ask questions often haha.

Personality wise I am honest, open, caring, empathetic and nerdy. I treat others how I expect to be treated with that is understanding/honesty/open mind/dignity/kindness. I am very easy to excite about stuff I'm passionate about and love to share that with the people I'm close too. I respect all kinds of people and walks of life I might not agree with but as long as it isn't causing harm to others it matters not to me.

About more intimacy compatibility I love to cuddle and be playful through the day and really enjoy physical contact once I am comfy with someone. My love language is words and touch. I am very open minded and only a few things for me are a hard no. I am a switch more Dom leaning but enjoy both situations still learning and exploring. I am always up for trying new things i have never even come across or thought about before. There is quite a lot of both vanilla and BDSM things I haven't tried and am very interested in it. All I look for in another person is open mindedness.

Because its been happening a lot lately do not be a ghoster, if you are not interested after starting a conversation just be decent about it and say you are no longer interested please its very rude and I just do not get why people do it. Thanks for reading and feel free to ask me any questions.