Nerdy, nuerospicy, full time artist. I have a demanding schedule most of the time but can make it flexible for the right people. Introvert but loyal to the core once I connect with someone. I deeply care for my people and value honesty and open communication more than anything, and offer the same in return. I have a nesting partner of 8 years, and cannot offer “traditional” relationship escalator type stuff (like living together). We date separately. He prefers mostly parallel with a sprinkle of KTP. I’m very open to Garden Party or KTP but not interested in dating couples AT ALL. We do not do Veto or anything like that. Relationship Anarchy is more aligned. HSV2 and medicated daily. If thats not within your risk profile, we probably won’t work out - that said, I am very mindful. My career makes me hyper aware of pathogen transmission and I avoid activities that put others at risk by default. If you don’t even know what a risk profile is, keep scrolling elsewhere.

Child free but not opposed to those with kiddos. Homebody for the most part, though I do enjoy getting out sometimes (mostly to art shows and museums) - but my favorite part will always be getting home to put my pjs on and relax. I love watching movies and TV and my big obsessions right now are Star Trek, Dr Who, and Good Omens. I am 100% a nerd. I also love to craft in my spare time, especially crochet. I’m completely obsessed with Hozier right now. Common interests are really important to me. Fellow nerds to the front of the line.

Not big on purely sexual connections, I like connections that are deeply emotional and fulfilling. I can love intensely but I generally need some common interests, and prioritize feeling safe, stable, and supported and offer my partners the same. I take quite a while to get to know people before I sus out my feelings for them. If you’re not down for a slow burn with minimal flirting early on, keep scrolling. I do like to keep up with day to day goings on, and I’ll txt you novels.

I have some hang ups about my appearance (shitty teeth. Thanks genetics) so best if you are non judgemental and accepting. Otherwise I’ve been told I’m cute. I am also non judgemental and accepting. Happy to exchange face pics early on though. I am VERY left, tired to death of capitalism, an inclusive feminist, and a silly little goblin with the right people. I also sometimes hang out with furries so don’t be a hater. 420 is yay. Vaxxed boosted and still masking in public spaces.

If you’re into the signs, I am a Capricorn, Scorpio rising and Scorpio moon. Year of the wood Rat. I get along with most everyone but have a very soft spot for Virgos, fellow Caps, Cancer, Pisces, and Libra. (Especially Libra. Why y’all so charming??) Looks, weights, heights don’t really mean anything to me. I’m more interested in who you are and what matters to you. Please be over the age of 30.

Cis men need not apply. I’m good on that front. Other hard NOs are TERFS, conservatives, littles, Christians and Christian adjacent religions - we simply will not get along. Hail Satan and ACAB. Looking for Afab and femme folx to connect with. Just went through a breakup (in December) with my long distance gf so not ready to jump back into dating right at the moment, but I am not opposed to getting to know someone and would welcome some distraction. I am okay with long distance, but the closer to the west coast, the better cus I’m a broke bitch and time zones are wibbly wobbly. Friendship first is always my motto - good connections bloom from a strong friendship. I like to take my time getting to know people. If you’re interested in maybe kindling a friendship, shoot me a message. I’m fine with moving to Discord if we both feel comfortable. this is posted on my throwaway account because my main account is connected to my career which is very public facing