I've been nervous about posting here, but it's time!
I've been through a lot lately, and I'm starting to wonder if there are any good partners out there these days. No matter what I do, how carefully I enter a relationship, I end up with an avoidant who lovebombs, pulls back, then leaves.
Is that all there is these days?
Full disclaimers, I am straight and non-monogamous, and this is the first time I've been single since my early 20's.
I am passionate about things that I want to share with my friends and partners, and I love to take an interest in whatever they love as well. I like to game, lately OW2 and WoW, but my passion for gaming has kind of waned with everything that's been going on lately. That said, I would love to find a common interest with someone as a way to spend time together, be it gaming, watching movies/shows, or whatever else comes up.
I'm a great partner in person, with a ton of affection and attention to give to a relationship. I love to cook and find ways to spend quality time, even if it's cuddling, watching TV, and giving shoulder rubs at the end of a long day. Similarly, online I am content to sit in voice doing nothing at all, or watching something together, or playing a game we have in common.
I am also into RP, so that is a potential thing we can do together. Ignite my creative fire!
I've saved the best for last, but I am a musician with dozens of instruments I'm able to play. I am a composer, I spent almost a decade teaching music at a college, and now I am a band director in a small school system. I also have cats, and I love to cook. I will absolutely share pictures of all of the above.
If any of this interests you, reach out. My DMs are open!
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