Hello, I rarely post (or date) much anymore but would like to form a connection with someone meandering around the same mindsspace. Creative and in higher ed. I spend a lot of my time on creative works and teaching. Spare time is a mix of cooking, music, painting and gaming. I have been on many road trips and love travel. I wouldn't mind forming an Online connection but am willing to travel at some point if it develops.

Six foot tall, dark hair, light eyes. Glasses. Beard and bald. I keep in pretty good shape, love tattoos and have quite a few. Love to laugh and alternate between being quiet and a motor mouth. Big fan on conversations, chat, banter, etc. Enjoy seeing others creative work or sharing my own. Pics can be selfish but also are great to share of random stuff during the day. Menu at a diner you're at. Squirrel fighting a bird. Anything works.

I've posted in the past and have more details on a previous ad. I am currently looking for some balanced romantic connection. Not just friendly chat but not just a setting fling. I would like to get to know someone longer term both in terms of attraction and being buds.

I am comfortable sharing photos but also like to receive at least some sort of verification that you are you pretty soon into a DM. The state of the sub recently is seller and spam central and I would like to know both parties are safe and consenting in communication.

I would like their to be some mututal attraction and desire and not just foster a friend zone - I know it can be frustrating in either direction for intentions to be muddled so I think it's best to say up front. I know people have their "types," which is also easier to know up front. I am not too picky about body type, other things like eyes and smile and voice stand out more for me. When it comes to a body type answer - I prefer curvy/a little extra or curvy. I do not care about being in perfect shape. Mom bods are hot 😅

Poly married and have been in dedicated non-monogamous relationships for the past ten years. Look forward to hearing from you!