We (F, 33, poly and TF NB, 36, poly) are a bi/pan couple looking for a long-term poly/enm type relationship with a man, woman, couple, or queer(s) in southern New Hampshire (SNH) or surrounding areas.

We've kinda ended up in a predicament... We're engaged and life partners but I don't think we ENTIRELY work for each other sexually.

I (36, transfem) love taking care of my partner physically but sometimes I feel masculated (so not good) and dysphoric when i use my OEM parts... I also haven't been with men and she's not capable of giving me what I need in that regard and she's not comfortable with silicone as she's more of a submissive/pillow princess...

We would love to find an individual or couple as we're both bi/pan that can have a sexual and hopefully intimate relationship with both of us. One (or more) soft dominant "top" partners to balance things out but a "dominant" and submissive pre-existing couple is equally good. We both need a connection and trust with new partners and we want more of a long term addition.

She's (33, F) into reading/watching horror, fantasy, true crime, mysteries, and supernatural. She also enjoys diamond art, crocheting, and other crafts. She's no nonsense often but can be playful and sentimental.

I enjoy couch co-op video games, most movies especially drama, sci-fi, and some comedy, long drives, and exploring food. I'm more playful/silly and also bratty and thoughtful. All in all we're both pretty standard people.

We have three kids 14, 13, and 8 from one "donor" (her ex) who is out of the picture entirely. We are also hoping for a fourth further down the line because I have no biological children myself. I generally have a higher libido than her but a portion of that is because I have been off HRT since 2022 in attempts to regain my fertility. When on gender-affirming hormone therapy I still have a need for physical connections.

Please, no cheating or dishonest individuals. If you're in a relationship already they should know about this endeavor and be excited to hopefully be in a long term loving union with all parties.

Ideal area is Hillsborough county as we are in Weare NH, West of Everett Tpk/Merrimack River, SxSW of Concord NH. This area is certainly flexible for the right person/people. Best time for dates is daytime, school hours, at least to start. Once everything is warmed up, incorporating the children and being an open family unit is an option.

( Amherst , Antrim , Bedford , Bennington , Brookline , Concord , Deering , Francestown , Goffstown , Greenfield , Greenville , Henniker , Hillsborough , Hollis , Lyndeborough , Mason , Merrimack , Milford , Mont Vernon , Nashua , New Boston , Peterborough , Temple , Weare , Wilton )