Here's a very informative post because I'm very serious about finding the right person for me. I've clearly marked and categorized everything, so feel free to skim the parts that interest you the most.

What brings me to reddit for dating: For the short of it, I've been doing online dating for about 3 months, and could only describe my experience as a struggle. With more traditional dating platforms having been absolutely torturous and a complete waste of time less than productive, I'm hoping this might give me a breakthrough.

Age: 22 open to 20-30 ~. I’m less about age, more about attraction.

Appearance: 5'2", long length dark brown hair , green eyes, brown/tan skin, i'm more on the chubby side body type.

Location: Currently in North GA It's basically above of Atlanta to give you an perspective For practical reasons I'm currently open to dating and relocation within the US, but outside of it sadly complicates matters a lot. I'm not looking for a long distance relationship, so feasibly being able to regularly interact and see each other in person is important.

Looking For: Poly relationship but closed to us at the same time(i want to be in a throuple), ideally long term. Partners and best friends in one. I feel that what I'd like the most is to find people very special to me, who I can love with all my heart and spend my life with. It'd probably be my greatest joy in life to be able to do that, and have someone do so in return.

Thus I have a far more reasonable starting point: Someone who's into me sexually and otherwise, that I can be good, or even best friends with. A mutually loving and caring relationship.

This isn't necessary but i just love someone who is like opposite of me , or can compliment me . I love when guys pick on their girlfriends , or just the dynamic of a very sensitive/emotional/talkative gf and logical/sarcastic/introvert bf ... Or we could literally act the same way and it would still be adorable to me ,i've never met anyone act like me so..

Traits I'm Looking For: Kind, loving, trustworthy, understanding. Good sense of humor, emotionally intelligent, communicates well, thrives on the happiness of others. I wouldn't ask for anything I don't freely give you.

Non-sexual interests: Many of my interests fall into different categories , music, art, makeup , fashion , I also love football(american).

In general, I like to keep in shape,, watch tv/movies/anime kdramas(horror and comedy), read, and I'm also rather intelligent/insightful and enjoy some nuanced discussion.

Personality: Generally cool headed, laid back, and kind. Introverted, but can be extroverted when I'm in my element and otherwise comfortable. , I also tend to be silly a lot so that's not easy to discern at first.(i have an Resting Bitch Face LOL) I care a whole lot about the people who i come to know in my life, i feel like i give off motherly vibes.

I’m also very reasonable, with a strong preference for peacefully resolving issues, so you can expect very little to no drama and good communication skills. One moral concept I'm quite fond is the law of equivalent exchange, so fairness and reciprocation is a big deal for me.

Sexual stuff

Sexual (and relationship) interests: I'm fairly new to a lot of things, so this isn't an exhaustive list. I'm very open minded and willing to try most things once, even if I think it wont work for me. I'm also more than happy to try and indulge your interests, so feel free to message me and talk to me about what you like too!

I'm actually a virgin ..

Affectionate/gentle domination is another clear favorite, along with role reversal. I enjoy having a partner that's assertive/aggressive/possessive in a romantic/sexual capacity. One who enjoys initiating intimacy and sex, and hugging/kissing/touching/groping me throughout the day for example. I'm perfectly happy with displays of affection and you taking the lead, whether that's holding me tightly in public and being a bit territorial, whispering in my ear that I belong to you and no one else, or proposing to me and putting a ring on my finger. I'd be quite happy with the prospect of being a housewife who handles the home stuff, and I can also make you a sandwich from time to time!

Some mutually "rough" sex, like play wrestling. Having you win and pin me down while kissing me is just ugh, incredibly hot.

Kissing/licking/biting (both giving and receiving) are big favorites. teeth marks and hickeys all over my body are a huge turn on for me, and definitely makes me feel like I belong to you. I'm very into putting my lips and tongue all over you

Cuddling, being held, holding you, affection, spending time together, adoring you, seeing you be happy, sexually pleasing you. I love casual and emotional intimacy, and I'm extremely loyal and affectionate once I get attached to someone. You will be my favorite person ever and your happiness/enjoyment will always be as important as my own. I'll always be there to support you, and seeing that I made the difference for you is incredibly satisfying for me.

Partner preferences:. Height difference (taller than me) . But these aren't explicitly deal breakers! As long as I find you attractive then it works for me.

Deal breakers/Requirements:. PLEASE DON'T BE A SOCIOPATH, OR ACT LIKE ONE.

Emotionally Unavailable , Someone NOT READY for a relationship . NOT MATURE

NOT LOOKING FOR JUST AN HOOKUP OR FWB

I"M NOT DOING ANY OF THOSES SEXUAL THINGS TO SOMEONE WHO IS NOT COMMITED TO ME