Yes, I know 90% of this community is rolling their eyes at the title, but, that’s okay.

We are an interracial couple (WM & BF) that has been together for over a decade. We have built relationships apart from each other but never together. We are open about our dynamic with our friends and have nothing to hide. We’re very communicative with each other and have gotten past the jealousy stage many years ago.

To get to the point, we’d love to share our love, time and an equal family dynamic with another woman. We’d like to find someone that we can build a relationship with slowly, separately and together. Hopefully, over time, this can transition to building a life together. We’re looking for an equal partner, not a third wheel.

To describe us a little further:

We appear very reserved at first glance, but we’re actually a ball of fun. We’re neither in great shape, nor poor shape. Think, muscular dad bod, curvy mom bod. We were both athletes, so we are active and physical. We both have many hobbies. Both together, and separate. We are both drinkers. We understand if that’s a deal breaker for you, but it is something we enjoy. She enjoys going out, he prefers staying in; though we both love exploring new restaurants and having a cocktail.

A few things we’re looking for in you:

Open minded, nonjudgmental. Able to carry a conversation. Someone who doesn’t result to yelling when there’s a disagreement and can openly discuss their feelings.

Finally, we are a totally open book. Happy to answer any and all questions. Happy to share photos. And if this leads to nothing more than a casual conversation, that’s perfectly okay. And if you’d like to talk to us separately, or together, we’ll gladly oblige.

Thank you for taking the time to read this, and we hope to talk to you soon!