Hello! Im Carmen,

Iv been practicing ENM for about 4 years. I currently have two long distance partners, they both live with their NP. We practice a weird mix of parallel and kitchen table polyamory. They are okay to hangout around each other and have slight communication but we all live very different lives on different parts of the country so it's a odd little mix. You will never be asked talk or be around them if you you don't want too!

I'm hoping to find a friendship/connection with someone that has the ability to turn into something more in the future and is interested in something potential longer term. I would consider myself pansexual with a heavy lean into more feminine partners as well as demi-sexual. I enjoy that part of a relationship but it come after establishing some vulnerability and emotional intimacy with each other.

A little about me, I'm an anthropology major that's taken a little break from school. I currently work as an after school educator for children that are considered more "at risk", I love traveling and last minute plans. I thrive in slight chaos (unplanned trips, last min grocery store runs, ECT.) I LOVE to cook and host people over. Planning dinner party with friends is one of my favorite past times. If you haven't guessed yet, I have ADHD it's made me have to become comfortable in chaotic situations but it also means I never have a dull moment.

I'm hoping to find a femini partner who's okay with occasionally last minute plans, doesn't mind socializing with friends and is open minded. I do practice Hellenism! I also would consider myself kinky and am in dynamics with both partners respectively.

My physical appearance, I'm 5'9 and average build. I have medium length dark brown hair that is dyed in an ombre towards the ends. Warm brown eyes and light olive skin.

In a potential partner I have few deal breaks - Not being able to/willing to communicate - Christian (Nothing against Christians as a group ! I have just found in the past that practicing polytheism is not compatible with a partner that is Christian) - Unwilling to be emotional vulnerable - Not being open to the possibility of children in the FAR future

If you've read it all thank you!! If you're interested in talking please message about a trip you've taken/want too !!

Oncer we've talked a little I'm more the happy to exchange SFW pics.